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HOW TO DEAL WITH "NEIGH" SAYERS


There is most definitely competitive energy that can encourage positive personal development and growth, however what I'm addressing today is competitive energy when it's based in the concept of "lack". In the case with love, competitive energy can look like the person who has to be better than everyone else so that they will be more loved. . . but by whom? And when it sees others making a run for the gauntlet, championing the Truth that there is more than enough love, that everyone gets to have their Beloved, it (the Ego) is threatened. And so it'll tell us bitter stories, remind us not to be "unrealistic" tell us that "there are no good men out there", says "it's too late for you", "beggars can't be choosers", and "all relationships are about hard work and compromise" etc. etc.

HOW TO IDENTIFY COMPETITIVE ENERGY OR NAYSAYING
To shed light on whether or not you've experienced negative competitive energy or nay saying, check in to see how you feel. Do you feel better or worse with the comment or the thought (yes it can be your own inner voice that is competitive)? Do you feel lighter or heavier holding the thought? Notice whether or not the assumption is based in fear or in love? If you feel heavy, negative, or more fearful, then you know that you've just given credence to what isn't true.

TOP WAYS TO DEAL WITH NAYSAYING
1. "Neeeiggggghhhhhhh!" You shake your head and whinny, OK maybe not aloud, but you can do it mentally to anyone who wants to rain on your parade. Any silliness promises to shake the energy out of your system and put your gears back to neutral. And by neighing to the naysayers, you are setting a boundary and telling the universe that you're not interested anymore in such nonsense.

2. Send love to the thought or persona that is weaving the pity story. Sometimes it's just a part of us that needs to be acknowledged for a past pain or injustice, like a child who once gets a kiss on her "boo-boo" is then able to get back out on the playground.

3. Affirm that they are right, "Yes you are absolutely right, there is not a single good man out there in the world." Inanities often clap like thunder when repeated aloud.


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